Everyone has had some kind of conflict in their life. One conflict that sucks out more than the rest was a disagreement with my husband over what type of car we needed to buy for the family. After looking back on it, I know that I snapped at him first. Some times when my husband gets mad at you, he gives you the silence treatment. I know now that there were different approaches I could have used. For example I could have tried to see his point of view in the subject matter. Where I jump to the conclusion that I was right be he was wrong. Where in reality there is no right or wrong answer. Another approach that I could have used was by using wording things differently and along with my town of my voice. The reason why I think that if I lowered my voice and framing words right, are imagine that our conversation wouldn’t get more out of control as it did. I could have also have found a way that we both could be happy. Where we could have found a type of car that we both like, overall we both are able to get as much as we can together.